What to Expect at Your Bridal Consultation
Being engaged to be married is an exciting time! There’s so much planning to do. Appointments to make, people to see and places to go… But what should you expect at your bridal consult with your wedding DJ?
I like to always start my consults asking how people met. It’s a great ice-breaker and gets people talking. It helps alleviate the stress of meeting new people. Plus, every couple I meet has a story to tell.
Once we get acquainted, that’s when I start explaining the process of a wedding. Generally, I tend to lead off by saying that every wedding has a framework, but you can customize the picture inside. Some couples choose to be traditional and some try to be as unique as possible. The split is about even. It’s all about staying true to your vision.
There are the traditional elements to a wedding reception such as the Grand Entrance, toasts, the prayer, cake cutting, first dance etc., but that doesn’t mean to have to do all of them or ANY of them. I’ve done wedding receptions where the couple wanted it to feel more like an upscale cocktail party. They didn’t want the fuss of doing a cake cutting or a first dance. They simply preferred a low-key party with friends and family. I’ve done weddings that were nothing but special events. It’s all in what you feel comfortable doing.
My job as a DJ is to give you my honest, professional opinion and work with you to make your vision come true. I’ve seen events work and not work. Through years of experience you get a feel for how a crowd is going to react.
For example, let’s look at the “Dollar Dance.” In the dance, the bride and groom stand separately on the dance floor. Guests line up for a chance to dance with either the bride or groom (or both!) but before doing so, they take a shot (if they’re of age) and/or donate a few dollars to the newlywed couple. My take on it is, if it’s a family tradition – go for it. If not, don’t go near it. It’s very polarizing. Some families who have this as a tradition embrace it and shower the couple with money. Other families who aren’t familiar, don’t understand it and often get offended.
Once I go over all the ideas you have for your wedding, we will work on a general timeline. Obviously, I don’t expect you to know all the details right away. I don’t even want you to pick out all your special songs yet. Why? Because between now and your wedding day, there may be a new song that really speaks to you.
Lastly, I will review my contract and give you the opportunity to ask any questions.
It’s inevitable that you’ll have a few questions afterwards. That’s perfectly normal. That’s why I always make myself available to talk.
A professional DJ will always do his/her best to make you feel at ease during the process. That’s always a sign you are on the right path.
Read on, music lovers!
DJ Amy Sas xoxo
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